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10 Success Tips - 8 They Were Normal People Who Present Well

Part 8 of 10 Series

They were not stunning looking with Superman or Barbie Doll figures: The successful people who have formed relationships were normal people who present well, take care of themselves, have an exercise regime and do not indulge excessively in food, alcohol or gambling.

We find that people who criticize the people they are meeting are usually projecting an unhealthy dissatisfaction with themselves. If you find you are critical of others, you are most probably dissatisfied with your own appearance or behaviour or are just too hard on yourself.

The overweight woman will criticize all the men but underneath it all the dissatisfaction is with herself because she knows she can't attract the type of man she really wants.

Look at your behaviour, what comes out of your mouth? Are you proud of your nature? Are you they type of person you would like to meet? Are you critical of others? Do you like being criticized? No one does. You can only expect what you are prepared to offer. Have you noticed a mean couple? She complains about his meanness but is just as mean. If you lack self control you will attract that type. If you are have a low self esteem you will most probably attract a similar personality.

Like attracts like. You will only attract what you have to offer. So make sure you can offer what you want.

Other topics in this series

1 They made an effort to get along with everyone they met
2 They were able to find something positive about everyone they met
3 They were cheerful and open-minded
4 They enthusiastically approached each introduction as a new opportunity
5 They were happy to go on a journey with us, even it seemed contrary to their usual method and meant stepping out of their comfort zone
6 They made time to meet people
7 They were fun to be with
8 They were not necessarily stunning looking with Superman or Barbie Doll figures
9 They used the program to find out more about themselves rather than criticize others
10 They made an effort to present well and had an exercise regime

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