10 Success Tips - 7 They Were Fun to Be With

Part 7 of 10 Series

They were fun to be with: Everyone can be fun. We are fun with our family and friends. A relationship has to be fun. No one wants a relationship that is not fun. We don't invite friends out who are no fun. Our relaxation time needs to be fun to off-set the rigors of work.

If you are still wearing your 'work hat' when you meet your introductions or are worrying whether they are 'the right one' or concerned that they are 'an inch too short', or '5 kgs. over your ideal weight for a partner' you won't be much fun.

If you are worrying about what you want instead of being a 'quality person' you won't be any fun. In fact if you are self-absorbed it will be obvious and you will burn the introduction.

What I like about my marriage most and Wendy says the same about her marriage is that it is 'fun'. We can't be fun all the time but if there is no fun in one's relaxation time, when are you going to have fun?

You can't show a person how genuine you are or show all your best characteristics in the first half hour but you can show that you can be good fun.

Other topics in this series

1 They made an effort to get along with everyone they met
2 They were able to find something positive about everyone they met
3 They were cheerful and open-minded
4 They enthusiastically approached each introduction as a new opportunity
5 They were happy to go on a journey with us, even it seemed contrary to their usual method and meant stepping out of their comfort zone
6 They made time to meet people
7 They were fun to be with
8 They were not necessarily stunning looking with Superman or Barbie Doll figures
9 They used the program to find out more about themselves rather than criticize others
10 They made an effort to present well and had an exercise regime

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