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Divorced Guys - #3 Seduction Can Be Easy

Part 3 of 7 Series

Seduction can be easy if your home is conducive to entertaining women: Is your home-base a place you will be proud to bring women? Get into the habit of keeping it clean. Never leave a mess to come home to. Don't go to bed leaving a mess behind. It is easiest tidied if you don't get it into a mess in the first place. For the major work, employ a housekeeper who comes in to wash, iron and clean once a week. If you are very neat, you may get away with once a fortnight. Having a clean pad is essential if you want to entertain women. It is also good for you, it helps to re-develop your self esteem.

Before you start dating, eliminate the "this will do" attitude and get your castle looking the way you would like it to look. Make it a home that reflects your personality, because that is how women will judge you. They are not going to judge you on the home you had with your 'ex'. It's no good driving her past that house. You have to show her the pad you live in now.

Get a decorator in if you cannot easily reflect your own personality. You will be amazed at what a decorator can do on a small budget. You won't believe the results. She can make your place look sensational. It's not going to cost you anymore. It will probably cost you less because you won't have to allow for mistakes in your decorating budget.

Most women are sticklers for cleanliness and not keen on dogs in the house. Don't put off a beautiful woman because your pad is unclean or because of doggie smells. Don't leave the children's toys all over the lounge. Make the place look as though it belongs to you and not your children. Don't worry about your children they are quite capable of making themselves at home next time they visit.

Did you know that if you don't change your sheets weekly the smell of unwashed sheets permeates through the whole house. You can't smell it because you are used to it but others will gasp as they walk through the door.

Fresh flowers is a lovely touch. If you add a tablespoon of household bleach to the water the vase won't stain and the water doesn't smell. It doesn't kill the flowers – except water lilies they don't like bleach.

Dating Tips for Divorced Guys. The Complete Series is available at www.entrenous.com.au/media and www.articlesbase.com and includes:

1 If you find yourself at a loss for words on dates
2 How to avoid baggage creeping into exciting new dating
3 Seduction Can Be Easy
4 Clothes Maketh the Man
5 Beware! Don't leave yourself open to be tricked, fooled or conned
6 Remember the manners you used when you were just out of high school
7 Don't rush into the next relationship

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