Who is your perfect match?

Once you know your dominant personality type it is easy to establish the personality type that you would be most comfortable with for a long term relationship. If you have not completed the Personality Quiz at our website now is the time so that you can determine who your perfect match is: www.entrenous.com.au/personality
• Mummy's Girl ~ The Dad's Boy
• Daddy's Girl ~ Mummy's Boy
• The Mother ~ The Brother
• The Sister ~ The Bachelor
• Favourite Aunt ~ The Playboy
• The Flirt ~ The Baby pf the Family
• The Wife ~ The Workaholic
The female personality type directly opposite the male's personality type above are best suited to each other i.e. the Mummy's Girl suits the Dad's Boy.
Mummy's Girl – Daddy's Boy: Being so manly himself he just adores the little-girl-type who is delicate and feminine. He loves to rescue her, whether it is from her mother, a boss that is too demanding, from all her bills or whatever; it makes him feel even more manly to be able to take care of her. Quite often he may be the rough-diamond who has succeeded in business, while her upbringing has been genteel. He is hoping that her influence will help him to smooth off a few rough edges. He wants her to enhance his social status. Although she never totally commits in her own mind to anything, she has been dreaming all her life of being rescued, and who better than a big strong man who dries her tears and is going to solve her problems?
Daddy's Girl – Mummy's Boy: He is attracted to her because she is strong like his mother. The Daddy's Girl often complains, 'Why do I always end up with a wimp?' She attracts him. He listens to her, he understands her need to be well organised and to do things perfectly. Having dealt with his mother for years he knows how to pander to her ego. But the main thing she does not realise at first, is that he does not object if she takes over. Early in the courtship this is fine but later she complains that he leaves her to run the show. He is not beyond telling the occasional white lie or to sugar-coat, to give the impression that he is more like she would like him to be. Although she complains that he duckshoves his share of responsibility, she enjoys doing things her way; when she comes home after a hard day at the office he is sympathetic and listens to her. He is kindness itself and helps to soften her brittle exterior. He will be successful too if she gives him encouragement and support and perhaps a little push – taking the place of mother.
The Mother – the Brother: Rather than sexy, she is affectionate; he would never make a sexist approach, he wants to be friends first. She likes his straight, open, honest approach and she sees that he would be good father material. She immediately has a rapport with his altruistic views on life and although at first there may be no sexual attraction, they enjoy common views and so their friendship begins. He feels threatened by too much glamour. He is attracted to her soft rounded figure and her pretty wash and wear hair style. He admires her practical, down-to-earth, caring nature. She agrees with his attitude that each share the responsibility in a relationship, and that even though she may not be sporty, (whatever his sport), she will make an effort to participate to please him.
The Sister – the Bachelor: She wants, 'a man who is his own person; with opinions of his own who does not need mollycoddling or fussing over. Someone who has it all together'. He meets her criteria and he just adores her lively personality. He believes that he needs a woman who can provide the joie de vivre – to create a balance. He admires her fierce independence and can see that she will not fence him in, nor intrude into his carefully-guarded introverted privacy. She is not in a hurry to marry and neither is he; she can see that he will not cramp her style, yet he is steady and reliable – comfortable to have around.
The Favourite Aunt – the Playboy: He has all the personality she does not have. Believing he has lived life to the full, he knows women and he wants one he can trust; he is less likely to go for the glamorous types he is always chasing. Although his social life may be full of zing, he prefers a woman with whom he does not have to share the limelight. She is happy behind the scenes and lets him take centre-stage. He will spoil her, flatter her and heap praise on her cooking. She likes the ways he allows her to run the household on her own.
The Flirt – the Baby of the Family: Oh dear, two prima donnas together! Well, they are attracted to each other and each can provide the needs of the other, so what if they do compete for the limelight? He just loves to have a beautiful woman on his arm, even if he does have to keep an eye on her and ward off competition. At least he is noticed when he is out with this woman. She dazzles him – he is immediately stirred by her sensuality and her magnetic charm. He wants to spoil her, impress her, and put her on a pedestal. She just adores to be spoiled, impressed and of course, many of her roles are played from on top of a pedestal. Life together will never be plain sailing, but then think of all the fun they have making up . . .
The Wife – the Workaholic: One thing about the Workaholic, he is usually successful. If she is going to be the dedicated wife it is important for her to choose a man who is prosperous in his career; after all, if she puts her heart and soul into it he has to come up with the goods. She sees his potential. He can see that this woman has respect for his priorities and will be supportive. He is so grateful to her for being understanding and taking over as social secretary and hostess so he will reward her generously. She enjoys the rewards but also just loves to take over these responsibilities; it is important to her to feel needed and appreciated.
It is important that your sub-personalities and those of your partner are taken into account.
The Daddy's Girl for instance, who has a strongly-active Flirt and frequently activates the Favourite Aunt as well, would not be happy with a man who is purely Mummy's Boy; he would have to be part Baby and part Playboy to be a perfect match.

Extract from Dial A Personality by Rosalind Neville of ENTRE NOUS (Introduction Service). Other books by the same author: Dial A Woman and Dial A Man.
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