Case History - Lacking Confidence

Lacking Confidence
Jason lacked confidence in himself and was worried that the women wouldn't like him. He'd had a few knock backs in the past and taken them to heart.

I suggested he meet at least two women per month to give him plenty of practise and suggested that he adopt the attitude: "If she doesn't like me that's her problem, Entre Nous have plenty more women available."

The first few women Jason met said they could read the fear in his eyes. We called him in for an early review.

I took a good look at him, not well dressed, not bad looking but not handsome and oh dear, he just lacked confidence.

I gave him the name of our image consultant who would take him shopping for some new casual clothes. I also gave him the number of my hairdresser and suggested a new hair style.

I gave him some self confidence exercises to do.

When next Jason visited us, we couldn't believe the difference. His clothes were so stylish and he beamed with pleasure at his new image. He also bought new suits for work and he was sure the transformation helped him get the promotion he had been wanting for years.

I asked him what helped most the new clothes or the self confidence exercises. Jason wasn't sure, he felt he needed both. He felt the exercises certainly helped him feel more confident at work.

Needless to say, Jason's new attitude attracted the women and before long he formed a relationship with a young lady that (in his own words) "she is 10 times more beautiful than I ever imagined I would be able to attract".